Ask someone. Take it apart if you can—or in your head if you can’t. And when someone gives you an answer, don’t just accept it. Think about it. Turn it around. Ask yourself if it really makes sense.
You don’t have to argue. You just have to understand.
And when you do understand something, see if you can make it better. Fix what’s not working. Make it simpler. Improve it, even just a little. That’s how things get better—because someone decided not to leave them the way they found them.
You’re already doing that now. And it’s a thing that only people do. Not AI. Not automation or robots.
Some day in school you’ll be studying history. Don’t just memorize the dates and names. Ask why they fought. What were they looking for? What were the stories of the people behind the history.
If it’s learning another language, ask yourself what it tells you about the people who speak it. In some languages there are twenty or even thirty words for sand, because it’s spoken by people who live in a desert.
As you get older, the things you work on will get bigger and more complicated. Not just toys—machines, systems, maybe even things you can’t see. But the way you approach them can stay the same.
Thinking this way isn’t always the easiest path. It can slow you down. You might be the one asking questions when everyone else is ready to move on. You might notice problems that other people don’t see or don’t want to deal with.
Just learn where to spend your time. Not every question needs to be chased all the way down. Some things really are good enough. Knowing when to stop matters too. But when something is important, don’t let it go too quickly.
Stay with it longer than most people do.
That’s where understanding comes from.
You don’t need to have all the answers. Nobody does. But if you keep asking good questions and keep trying to understand what’s really going on, you’ll be able to figure things out as you go.
And that’s enough.
So keep asking why. Keep figuring things out. Don’t get too comfortable with easy answers.
Questions are tools.
Use them well.
— Papa